I'll share with you 3 instructions that you will want to know now about keeping away from a breakup and saving your relationship:
1. Work For Love - Even though it wasn't exactly hard work, I'm sure you broke a sweat trying to set up your relationship. The courting course required effort from both sides to create the magic of attraction. The procedure shouldn't stop there just for the reason that the both of you are a couple now.
Love is not just a coincidental feeling; it is something you have to work for to attain. If you've stopped giving her flowers, stopped your weekend coffee trips with him or whatever it is that you deliberately made an effort to do during courtship, then you are slacking! You can't expect to continually feel the high of being in love if there isn't any contribution from your part. Save your relationship by putting in various effort if you haven't already been doing so. You will harvest what you sow.
2. Remain A Challenge - If you were like any other person who's ever been in love, you most probably would have faked some form of resistance in the courtship days. If he called you to go out for dinner, you might have told him you couldn't make it but would love to do it on the following night. It wasn't because you were busy! You just didn't want to come off as too easy. Another example would be upon getting her number, you didn't call her back that night itself. Sure you wanted to but it would have seemed too eager so you decided to make her wait and be a challenge. One main mistake a lot of couples make is to get too comfortable with each other too quick. You've barely been together for a month and already you're kissing the ground your loved one walks on. You can tone it down a bit but continue to be a challenge from time to time. Challenge inspires interest and will keep you looking confident of yourself, which is a great attraction factor. Avoid the breakup by not being a wimp.
2. Live Your Own Life - personally connected to being a challenge, make sure you still have your own life outside of the relationship. This is not meant in a promiscuous manner of course! I would never dare propose such a thing. In fact, mentioning the word 'dare', that is faithfully what many of you are afraid of. You don't dare to live your own life once you are in love with someone. You think all has to have the word 'we' in it or else you'll both drift separately. You do it out of fear to keep away from a breakup. It is like the flip side of not working for love.
A couple consists of two people who are distinct. That may mean you have diverse interests or diverse social groups. Even if your significant other doesn't join you, it's OK to go do the things you like to do every once in a while. You both need breathing space. She sometimes wants to go shopping with her friends and he from time to time wants to drink beer in a sports bar with his buddies. Loosen up this way and you'll have plenty to talk about when you are together. It will help keep the fire burning and save your relationship from going downward as an effect of too many restrictions. There actually is such a thing as too much love.
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